It may be looks, smarts, language skills, relationships, money, or fame and fortune; once a hater concludes they can’t have what you have, they fall prey to their own self-judgement.
Unaware, they transferred their own self-dissatisfaction onto you (a clear mark of a narcissist). They think you are the problem, the cause of their discomfort. But that is not the case.
You see, people who are unaware of what they think of themselves don’t understand that it isn't you they dislike.
They don’t know that you are only a mirror reflecting their inner self-assessment, judgement, and beliefs about their ability to achieve.
Oblivious to its existence, somewhere along the way, they decided they couldn’t obtain anything beyond a certain level, a limit they had set in place.
Haters will hate because you have exceeded their expectations of themselves.
One more quick thing....did you have a chance to look at the Woman To Woman Celebration Journal yet? If not, here it is again.
Perhaps there is a special occasion or a birthday coming up that this journal can commemorate. Check it out. Links below.
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About the Author
In early Spring of 2011, as I sat with my journal at a family cabin, I felt the seed of my creative writing come through from beneath the surface. As I picked up my pen to begin my first journal entry, I felt a feeling of profound peace and indescribable comfort. All was well. I felt I was Home - finally!